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πŸ’” πŸ’” When We Fall for the Face and Miss the Heart πŸ’” πŸ’”

When Beauty Becomes More Important Than Love There is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone. We all have preferences. Some people like tall men. Some like beautiful women. Some are attracted to a certain face, body type, voice, style, or presence. Physical attraction is a real part of romantic love, and pretending otherwise would be dishonest. But sometimes something changes. A person may become so focused on having a beautiful or handsome partner that they stop seeing the person behind the appearance. Kindness becomes less important. Emotional maturity becomes less important. Compatibility becomes less important. The way that person makes them feel becomes less important. The question then becomes: Why? What is happening underneath that strong need for physical beauty? Sometimes, beauty is not really about beauty A person might say, “I want a beautiful woman,” or “I want a tall, handsome man.” But sometimes what they are really saying is: “I want someone who makes me feel valu...

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